At Agapé Boarding School we are, with the Holy Spirit's help, trying to develop a self-disciplined teenager who is submissive to the Word Of God and the Will of God. We work with the student to help form good habits in the students, such as: A cheerful obedience to authority; responsibility in doing assigned or expected tasks; cooperation with others in work or play; courtesy and respect for others; cleanliness in person and property; truthfulness and honesty in work and life; promptness in attendance and assignments; morally good conduct in respect to language, recreation, and social relationships; and respect due to parents in communication by mail or telephone. There are certain rules that are necessary for efficient operation of the school. Every student attending Agapé Boarding School must operate within the framework of the school's rules and policies.

STUDENT CONDUCT
Students are expected to conduct themselves in such a manner as is becoming of a Christian. Each student should remember that their behavior reflects not only the school, the church, their family, and themselves, but also the Savior. Students should place Jesus Christ first in all thoughts and actions. They should maintain a consistent testimony and dedicate themselves to the will of God. Worldly habits, disrespect for the staff or school, a sullen or negative attitude, or any other evidence of a lack of cooperation is not permitted.

DORM CONDUCT
Dorm Rules are listed in each dorm or division. Every student must become familiar with these rules as rules are added or changed often. All rules should be obeyed at all times. If one or more rules are broken, there will be a discipline for each broken rule.

HAIRCUTS
Hair will be worn off the ears and off the collar (tapered sides), and back. All haircuts must meet the approval of the Agapé staff. We believe a man should look like a man. The Bible says "it is a shame for a man to have long hair". This is why we do not allow long hair on our students. This rule is upheld by our staff and administration.

CLOTHING
Worldly clothing is not allowed to be worn by our students. We require our students to be dressed in Agapé attire. The attire is supplied to the students by Agapé , except for work jeans. Work jeans cannot be baggy. They should be the correct size and length. Any work jeans deemed inappropriate will be sent back to the student's home. The jeans should be "Rustler" Jeans, purchased at Wal-Mart.

PACKAGES
All packages shall be addressed to Agapé Boarding School and include the student's name. ADDRESS PACKAGES TO YOUR SON LIKE THIS:


AGAPE BOARDING SCHOOL
JOHN DOE
12998 E. 1400 RD.
STOCKTON, MO 65785

Please remember: Never send food, candy, magazines, or items that contain alcohol, radios, television, handheld electrical games, etc., to a student. Items that are deemed inappropriate by the administration will be sent back to the student's home at the parent's or guardian's expense.

LETTERS
Students are encouraged to write their parents or guardians as often as they like. Parents or guardians are also welcome to write as much as they would like. Any other relative or person must be approved by the administration of Agapé Boarding School. In order for the student to write, he needs self-addressed, stamped envelopes from the parent or guardian to whom he will write. The student will not be allowed to address his own letters.

PARENTS
PLEASE ADDRESS LETTERS TO YOUR SON AS FOLLOWS. YOU MUST INCLUDE HIS NAME ON THE FRONT OF THE ENVELOPE:


Your Name
Address Agapé Boarding School
John Doe
12998 E. 1400 Rd.
Stockton, MO 65785

TELEPHONE CALLS
Unless there is an emergency. Students may receive calls from their parents or legal guardians after they have been enrolled for 30 days. Approved grandparents may call after the student has been enrolled for 90 days. When phone calls are acceptable, there will be only one telephone call every two weeks. Please remember: Saturday, and Sunday are the only days to talk to your son. Grandparents may call once a month for 15 minutes. Phone calls can be no longer than fifteen minutes. There will be no whispering on the phone and all conversations must be in the English language only, unless approved first by Agape Administration. Use the following numbers when calling your son:
417-276-7215
417-276-7216

Phone calls from parents will be received at the following times:
Saturday: Between 1:00 PM to 5:45 PM
Sunday: Between 1:00 PM to 5:45 PM
Telephone calls at times other than those listed above will not be received unless it is an emergency, or with prior approval by the Agapé administration.

Students are allowed to receive a 5 minute phone call on their birthday, but only after the student has been enrolled for 30 days. Phone privileges may be forfeited or interrupted for misbehavior.

Parents will be allowed to call for 5 minutes on Christmas Day, Mother's Day and Father's Day, during the regular phone calling time.

WITHDRAWAL
Any student removed prior to completing the withdrawal procedure will receive a grade of "incomplete" in all subjects.
Procedure for returning home is initiated when these following occur:

  1. The student feels he is ready to return home.
  2. Both parents feel the student is ready to return home and the parents are ready for the student to return home.
  3. The Agapé Boarding School Staff feel the student is ready to return.
  4. All parents must agree to leave their sons enrolled at Agapé until all three of the above occur.
  5. Students over sixteen years of age will be required to remain at Agapé Boarding School until graduation from high school. This will be decided prior to enrollment.

MERIT OPPORTUNITIES
  • Scripture memory - 5
  • Passed test - 5
  • 100% on test - 10
  • PACE speech said with "spunk"! - (?)
  • Answer brain teaser correctly - 5
  • Good deeds (as determined by Principal) - (?)
  • Students can use merits for an offering on church days and can buy various items from the merit store.

DEMERIT SITUATIONS Unless permission is received~ each of the following earn one demerit:
  • Getting out of the chair without permission.
  • Leaving the area where student is taking a test.
  • Bringing food or drink into the Learning Center
  • Talking in the Learning Center
  • Disturbance in the Learning Center
  • Chair left out. (Chair must be pushed in and touching desk.)
  • Improper star chart or goal card.
  • Going to the score station with a pencil or eraser.
  • Improper scoring procedures
  • Extra red marking PACE.
  • Score keys or red pen not replaced properly.
  • Leaning back in chair.
  • Turning or looking around.

Violations which may earn automatic detention time according to the nature of the offense:
  • Working any part of a Self-Test without first obtaining initials.
  • Cheating on PACE work or Test.
  • Arguing with the supervisor.
  • Stealing.
  • Physical contact.

HOMEWORK
Students not finishing their assigned goals are given time to work on them during free time on the weekdays and weekends.

MINIMUM REQUIREMENTS FOR PASSING TESTS
Students must score 90% on all pre-tests (self-tests) and 80% on all tests. After this is accomplished, the student will go on to the next PACE. When a student fails a test, he will need to redo the entire PACE. A new PACE will be issued to the student at a cost of $3.00 per PACE. Broken flags will cost $2.00. These items will be charged to his personal account.

CHEATING
If a student admits or is found to be cheating in a PACE or PACES, the student will be issued a new PACE or PACES at a cost of $3.00 each, which will be charged to his personal account.

SUSPENSION (From Learning Center)
If a student receives 16 demerits (counting) in a 9 week quarter, the student is suspended from the Learning Center for 3 days. While the student is out of the Learning Center, he will be in orientation. A student may receive a one day suspension for the equivalent of 6 demerits in one day.

DETENTION
One hour of detention will be served each day after school by students who have received 5 demerits in one day.

PROGRESS REPORTS 
Report cards are sent home at or around every nine weeks.

Any act by a parent, guardian, or a visitor that the Agapé Administration feels is interfering with a student's progress or could cause harm to a student physically or mentally, gives the Agapé Boarding School the right to ask that person or persons to leave campus.

  • Parents should never talk to their sons about when he will be leaving Agapé Boarding School, or where the student will go if he is placed somewhere other than Agapé Boarding School. This should only be discussed with Agapé Administration.
  • Parents should never try and interfere with the policies or rules of Agapé Boarding School. These rules and policies are for their son's success and protection. If there is a question about a policy or rule, do not ask your son. The staff of Agapé Boarding School will be glad to answer any questions you may have.
  • If a parent or guardian fails to comply with the policies or rules of Agapé Boarding School, this may result in the expulsion of their son from the school. Should expulsion occur, parents or guardians will remove their son from the school within forty-eight hours at their expense.

A student is considered truant when he does not attend classes or any other school activities without permission A student is also considered truant when he leaves the campus grounds without permission.

TRUANCY PROCEDURES
The administration and staff are flexible, but the general procedure followed whenever a student leaves the campus without permission, is as follows:

The student's parents are notified immediately or as soon as possible. The sheriff will be notified and a truant report will be filed. All of the student's personal belongings become the property of the school. Parents are responsible for all damage done on and off Agapé Boarding School property. This procedure may vary according to the circumstances surrounding each incident. The student may reclaim his belongings by returning to school within ten days.



Visits for the students by parents or legal guardians are welcomed by Agapé Boarding School, provided the visit is pre-arranged with the school administration at least two weeks in advance. 

Visits by anyone other than the parents or legal guardians may be a one day visit. All visits are subject to the approval by the Agapé Administration. All visits must be three months apart.

VISITATION TIMES
PLEASE NOTE: All visits must be done in order, no matter how long it has been between visits.  Visits must be at least 4 months apart.

  • PARENTS' FIRST VISIT -4 months
    A 3-day (or less) visit is allowed for a student's first visit, after 4 months. This visit is an on-campus visit and the student will not be allowed to leave campus. We encourage this first visit to be a Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. You may call the school to find out what time these visits start. Only the parents or guardians are allowed to visit on the first visit.
  • PARENTS' SECOND VISIT -8 months-- After a student has been enrolled for 8 months he is eligible for a 4 day off-campus visit. The student must return to the campus each night and be back in time for chapel. Students are not allowed to miss chapel or church services. This visit can be reduced or disallowed according to the student's behavior.
  • PARENTS' THIRD VISIT - 12 months-- This is a four day, off-campus visit and is allowed after twelve months. The four days include travel time. Location of this visit may NOT be anywhere near student's home area but must be within driving range of the school campus. Agapé's Administration will approve the location of the visit. The visit can be reduced or disallowed according to the student's behavior.

Charge for transportation to the airport:
Kansas City $200.00
Springfield $ 100.00
There will be no transportation provided on Wednesdays or Sundays.

On-Campus Visitation Rules
  • No smoking on campus property.
  • No alcoholic beverages, or beverages that are inappropriate in a Christian boarding school.
  • No profanity or language deemed inappropriate (Worldly slang).
  • Parents or visitors are not allowed in any building; (dorms, kitchens, etc.) without permission from the Agape administration.
  • Students are never to leave the campus property during an on-campus visit.
  • Parents or visitors should never counsel, or visit with another student other than their son, unless permission is given by Agapé administration.
  • Ladies and young ladies should always dress appropriately and modestly while on-campus. This means: No shorts, short skirts, low-cut blouses or halter tops. We recommend a modest dress for our visiting ladies. Remember, this is a boys boarding school.
  • If a visitor or parent violates any of these on-campus rules, they may be asked to leave the campus.

Off-Campus Visitation Rules
Off-campus visits are an exciting time for our students. We want them to have a good time on these visits, but we also want them to do right and act right. The rules below will help the student keep his mind and body clean while on his visit.
  • No theater movies; (walk-ins, drive-ins, etc.)
  • No Rock, Rap, Country, or inappropriate music.
  • No smoking.
  • No drinking alcohol, or inappropriate beverages.
  • No immoral activity with the opposite sex.
  • Be careful what you watch on TV.
  • Stay away from the wrong friends, or people who are bad influences.
  • Students may not go to the Battlefield Mall

Where to Stay
Nearby Accommodations for Visitors to Agapé Boarding School
    Stockton
  • C-Bar-J Cabins: (417) 754-2280
  • Cedar Oak Lodge: (417) 276-3193
  • Mt. Carmel Inn: (417) 276-3349
  • Orleans Trail Motel: (417) 276-3566
  • Owl Haven Motel: (417) 276-4907
  • Serenity Acres: (417) 276-7826 or (417) 276-1224
  • State Park Inn: (417) 276-5422
  • Stephen's House: (417) 276-3926
  • The Old Country House: (417) 276-5822
  • The Old Oak Hideaway: (417) 276-3926
  • Winnie's House Bed & Breakfast: (417) 276-4584
  • Hoff House (417) 838-6825
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